It is my sophomore year at Cuesta Junior College in San Luis Obispo, Ca. I am starting against our conference rivals at the time, Oxnard. There must have been at least 10 scouts in the stands. I started off the season only throwing 85, 86 and only topping out at 88. The year before I was sitting at 88, 89 and topping out at 91. I learned the hard way during the middle of the season that I was working out too hard and too frequently during the season. A few weeks prior to this huge start against Oxnard, the Oral Roberts head coach was watching me and observed that I looked too tight. I stopped working out for the next few weeks and on this particular day, I felt noticeably a lot looser from my first warm up pitch. The first batter of the inning I walked. It was a 3-2 count and I threw a 92 mph fastball on the corner called a ball. I wasn’t as flustered as I usually got after a close call because I knew I was throwing ched. All I needed was a ground ball…which I got 2 pitches later. It was fielded cleanly from what I remember, however the throw from the second baseman was a little high and our shortstop was only 5’6”. This started to get me going as I was getting screwed left and right, and I hadn’t felt this dominating on the mound since the previous summer. My body language began to change slowly but surely. The next batter hit a seeing- eye single through the six hole scoring a run. With runners on first and second, the next batter popped up to left. Our left fielder was sitting under it and then at the last second with the brutal sun in his eyes, he flinched and the ball hit him in the eye. There was a 10 minute delay. My big game that was gonna make or break me for this season was spinning out of control. I felt as if there was nothing else I could do at this point. My fielders didn’t come ready to play and I felt like I could get anybody out. At this point I decided to get the first out myself. I was gunning to strike this next guy out. I got the guy 0- 2 and then ended up losing him to a walk. My season was slipping away. I didn’t even have to look as I knew what was coming. I just held out my palm with my head down. All I remember before the coach grabbed the ball from my hand, was a scruff mark from the pop fly that hit my left fielder in the eye. The previous season I was lights out for the most part and got drafted in the 29th round by the Rangers. My sophomore year my role as the ace slowly turned into a role out of the bullpen.
This post obviously deals with learning how to be in control of only the elements in which we have the power of controlling. For example… when I walked the first batter because of the umpire missing a close call. Whether the umpire missed it or not, nothing else mattered except for the end result, which was a base on balls. No one is in control of the umpire. After umpiring since I was 15, I still did not learn that umpires feed off player’s emotions. However, if you have no emotions to show, then they have nothing to feed off, therefore not allowing emotions to come into the equation for close calls. So, if we have no control over what decisions another human being is going to make, then why should we let it get to us. Knowing this going in is the key to being successful in this aspect of the game. If we expect the umpire to be perfect throughout the game, than naturally a person would get upset when a bad call occurs. However, if we expect the umpire to make a few bad calls throughout the game, than we cannot possibly get upset when it happens. Teach your kids that the umpire is human and not perfect and to expect to get screwed each and every game. This especially holds true the younger you are. If you have not yet noticed, the umpires get better as you move up through the various levels of the game. Explain to them that if you expect to get screwed over by the ump, there is no reason to react in a negative fashion to their mistake that you knew before the game even started was going to happen. Sadly, I didn’t fully understand this aspect until I got to Fullerton. I always heard “don’t let the umpires effect you” growing up. But nobody ever went into detail on how to really deal with this big issue. Another key to teaching this is being able to relay to your kids that they are not that crappy that they need every call to go their way. When they bitch about a call, (especially if they are one of your better kids) ask them this: “Are you that bad of a player that you need every call to succeed?” Naturally their response should be no. However, if they say yes or don’t even respond because they get so down on themselves, tell them no, of course not. Boost up their confidence and tell them that they are way too good to let one bad call effect their whole day. Expect it to happen!!!! Because more likely than not, this scenario will happen your next game and you will now know what to do to not let your best player have a bad day because of one bad call in the first inning. Dealing with this issue properly WILL win you at least one ball game this year, I can almost guarantee it. And if a kid still responds negatively (a problem child), then bench his ass. Send a message to the entire team very early that this behavior will not be tolerated. Negative body language spreads like wildfire and should be the first thing eliminated in the equation for a winning ball club. You might have a few parents on your case, but I can guarantee they will be thankful as will the rest of the parents for producing a positive, confident, winning team. I will devote an entire blog to dealing with this issue of taking complete control of your team next week.
This concept is also used for pitchers and hitters. Do not step onto the rubber or into the box unless you are ready. Once they step in, it is their trigger to being ready. These are very simple drills that will ultimately prepare your players for every single pitch. I will be talking a lot about “One pitch at a time”. This was probably the biggest motto we lived and died by at Cal St. Fullerton. Playing the game one pitch at a time. I am sure you have heard this term or even use it without really understanding its true meaning. One pitch at a time means that you as a player and as a coach are locked in with complete focus for every single pitch of the entire game. Now this might not seem that difficult but I assure you it is. Even watching games on the bench, especially playoff games, I would get exhausted just by living every single pitch of the game as if I were somehow involved. This might seem a little extreme, but I learned at Fullerton how to be out there with my teammates, living each play of the game with my fellow players. Physically I would never be out there, but mentally I was a part of each play. When the players on the field were stepping into their circle, I was stepping into my circle. We would play games (especially big games) standing side by side in the dugout, each Titan shoulder to shoulder, battling with our fellow Titans on the field. We always sent out a powerful message to the other team that when things got tough, we battled together as a team. Even if we were down, we were trying to win each pitch, each inning. We were trained not to think about the end result. Be process oriented, not result oriented. Stick with the process of battling with the entire team to win each pitch, not worrying about the end result when starting off the game down by a lot. I have witnessed some unthinkable comebacks at Fullerton all by just battling our asses off no matter what the scoreboard said. Once you can truly live one pitch at a time, you will then have produced a team of warriors who are ready for the toughest of battles. One last thing… if you as a coach know that your players battled every pitch of every inning and still lose the game, then you can just tip your caps to the other team because there is no shame in losing if your players played balls out. Our coaches would only get pissed after a loss if we as a team did not follow the process. This so- called “process” gets a lot more complicated, but these are some of the key components to playing a “process” oriented game as opposed to a “result oriented game”. I guess your all just gonna have to wait for all the pieces of the puzzle to fit into place…